Letter to Guys (Rape)

Hello Guys,

Sex is a beautiful thing. It is more beautiful when it is freely given. The hallmark of a real man is his ability to receive sex freely. Sex is fun when done between consenting adults. What then is sex without the caressing, the moaning, the cuddling, the slow motion, the climaxes, the smiles on both faces, the feebly kisses, and the asking for one more round by a well satisfied lady.

After sex, there is this connection you feel with the partner, this calmness. All these are forfeited when sex is forced, or had with a kid who knows nothing about sex. Instead, you are scared, disturbed, brain drafting here and there for solution to clean the mess, wash the shame; while you are at that, the little lady or partner is in tears, pains, with hate all over her face. This is not a thing we should experience; that what should be fun turned out sour simply because we fail to exercise restrain over our urges or be a little more responsible. 

Again imagine going to jail over few moment of sex. Imagine the shame that comes with it. Does it really worth it? Worse still, if you murdered your victim, the guilt of having blood in your hand over sex that is everywhere is kind of too much to bear. Imagine how you might lose your sanity? These days, it is easier to get crude oil in the North than to evade been jailed for rape and murder. Choose wisely; do not rot away in Jail for sex. This is the least of things. 

If you are having difficulty in receiving sex, try to work on yourself. Get a life, be responsible and one fine sister might not mind blessing you with one every evening once you convinced her you are the worth the stress.

Try to train your mind to see nude as nothing. In fact visit beaches where people are almost naked. Visit it often; it might help you build your self-control when a woman is around no matter how provocative her dressing might be.

When you spend money on a woman, there is no guarantee that she would love you or even give you sex. More often than not, most guys do not even spell out what they want and the lady might assume you are just trying to be a nice guy. Do not spend any money you might regret on any lady. This way you are able to stomach it should she says no. No body forces you to spend money, you have no right to force anyone to give you sex. You could ask, and it could be turned down. Na so life be. So wise up.

I have learned that ladies too want sex, they even love it and you would get as much as you want if only you remain responsible. If you understand women, you would never rape them. Never!

Sex is sweet but Rape is horrible

Do not rape, even animals may not.

Watch out for part 2

>>> Courtesy: Uchenna Hampo